Hi, I'm Lanae,The MamaSutra

I'm a sex and relationship coach who helps adults get in touch with their bodies and sexuality so they can talk openly, be present in their relationships, and experience the kind of sex and intimacy that has them smiling the whole next day.

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Where to begin

Start your journey with any of these powerful tools

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A vibrator guide so you can explore your sexuality and expand your confidence


A cheat sheet so you can reignite the spark and try new things with your partner


A fill-in-the-blank script so you can talk with your kid about sex in the most positive way

What I Believe

If you can get the sex you want, you'll get the life you want.

Lanae The MamaSutra

Meet The MamaSutra

Hello, I'm Lanae,

... founder of The MamaSutra. I help adults of all genders connect to their own sexual health and their partner by discovering how to explore sex and intimacy - and feel comfortable talking about it (so comfortable in fact, talking about sex with their kids has become easy).

There is SO MUCH PRESSURE and expectation that you have to know everything. It's nerve wracking to try to gain experience in an area that is new. As a result, you might feel alone, disconnected, and uncomfortable. You have a vision for your relationships but nothing is changing, and you feel this is going to be the rest of your life: living just on the edge of discovery.

And I'm here to help you change all that.

What I Also Believe

Sexual Health is Health

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A Mad Lib Style Script for the “Sex Talk With Your Teen”

Discover a way to begin “The Talk” with your own words, so you feel empowered and confident in knowing what to say, and relieved that doing so keeps your kids safer.

How to go from Awkward 😫 to Playful 😋 with your Partner in 3 simple steps!

Grab my “Touch Lab” Freebie. It will help you bring more fun into your relationship.

What I Help You Achieve

Talking about sex can be awkward, difficult, and embarrassing.

From positions to pleasure, there are sooo many concepts you didn’t learn in school.

(In fact, when’s the last time you took sex ed? For most of us, it was some time in junior high. You’ve changed a lot since then - shouldn’t your attitudes change, too?)

As a woman, you know the culture treats us differently around sexuality. Sexual health IS health and you must know this for yourself.If you’re a mom and you haven't learned this for yourself, how tough will it be to teach your kids knowing this is how they can grow up safe, happy, and healthy, too?

The good news? Sex talk doesn’t have to make you feel nervous anymore - I’m here to help.

What my clients and students are saying

How to begin working together?

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Let's Work Together

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Let's Dive In and Explore

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