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No. A girl cannot get pregnant if only the lips on her face touch the lips on his face. Being completely clothed also helps.For a woman to get pregnant it requires a couple things; a person who menstruates and a person who creates sperm. To get pregnant, the sperm from a man must meet the egg of a woman. Usually this is done via penis-in-vagina sexual intercourse but it can be done using just the two ingredients in a lab.Having your period means the uterine lining your body has created to receive a fertilized egg is shedding out of your body. It takes the next roughly 28 days to make and shed another ?nest? the next month.If you are just putting your lips together then you?re fine, it doesn?t matter what time in your cycle....
Published Date : 8/3/2018

Yes. You can. There are plenty of women who do sex work AND who identify as feminist. These two things are not mutually exclusive.I understand why you ask the question though. Some women say they are feminist but they aren't inclusive of sex workers (SWERF) or trans women (TERF). You'd have to ask Someone who has this view why they believe sex workers and/or trans women shouldn?t be included in the rights and protections feminists are working for.I'd imagine there are Sex workers who don't identify as feminists. I'd guess it's because of the behaviors of people in the first group who call themselves feminist but aren't for equal rights for all.Thank you for your question....
Published Date : 8/8/2018

If the tubal ligation procedure (the medical name for having your tubes tied) was done where both ends of the cut Fallopian tubes were cauterized (burned) then no.How having your tubes tied? works is it prevents the egg from moving from your ovary to your uterus via the Fallopian tube. Or also prevents sperm from traveling up the other way to fertilize the egg. It's like having a permanent bridge is out? sign for the egg and sperm so they can't meet.If you want to get pregnant, then you should talk to your doctor about whether or not your tubal ligation would be reversible. Or maybe there?s another method they can suggest to get pregnant.Wishing you well....
Published Date : 8/3/2018

What? No.What makes a person unattractive is insecurity and a lack of confidence. In fact, those two things together make you an easy target for exactly the WRONG person who would want to date you. They would see you as easy prey. It can be a set up for all kinds of unhealthy relationship habits.Do what you can to try to identify what qualities you would like in a partner and see how much of those qualities you have to offer. If you're lacking, think of ways you can change that. For example, If you're low on self esteem, maybe hang out with people who build each other up instead of people who reply sarcastically.I notice your question sounds like it's coming from a place of shaming yourself for where you are. There is NOTHING wrong with not yet having a romantic relationship. You are a whole person already WITHOUT a partner. Our crappy culture gives boys and girls this message that they should already be partnered from the youngest age and it's just weird.Make friends with folks who help you be your best self and that ideal person just might show up when you least expect it....
Published Date : 5/9/2019

Bri, is it? Examine what it is about him that you like. Can you name the qualities or characteristics he has that you find atttactive? When you are together, how does he treat you? What about his behavior gives you warm feelings (and not just sexual feelings)? Give some thought to the principles you live by, and what sorts of hobbies or activities you enjoy that you'd like to share with a partner. Are there certain relationship skills you think are necessary for a long-term relationship (and if you're lacking in any of those, how do you fix that?)? When I look back on when I was in college, I tended to like guys who were sort of neutral to me; they weren't really into me nor actively pursuing me. It was like I wanted the challenge of winning him over to liking me. I think that I considered that some sort of win (which I think is totally bizarre now). Do you think it's possible that you're doing this too? The advice I have for my daughters now is for them to pay close attention to how they feel when they are with the person, notice if they think they could be friends with the person (I personally think friend zone should be reclaimed because intimacy, closeness, and general liking of the other person is important. As important as the passion and sexual connection but we don?t always have to lead with that. But that?s a different post altogether). Also, in asking him if he's still interested in you, you're giving away your power. Why leave this up to him to decide? The most important person in this situation is YOU. Give some serious consideration to whether YOU are still interested in him. The relationship I choose now is a hell yeah! not an ,I guess so or sure, why not.? ...
Published Date : 7/9/2018

First off, if you find a qualified professional who is adequately educated in human sexuality (like the professionals of the organization American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors, & Therapists AASECT) then I cannot imagine they would be uncomfortable. If your topic is one that the practitioner doesn't specialize in, I?m sure they would refer you to someone who does. It's a great network and I'm proud to be part of it.That said, not every psychotherapist is part of this group. There are other sex-informed organizations you can find that a sex-informed professional could be part of, like ISSWSH, WASC, SSSS, and SIECUS. Google those ones.If you're unsure of how your psychotherapist will react to the topic of sex, just ask. Ask questions. I would want to know if they went through a SAR - (Sexual Attitude Reassessment/Restructuring) and also ask their views about porn and sex addiction. Those items are my own litmus test for a sex- positive person to get a quick sense of their attitudes about sexuality.Asking the psychotherapist up front their views about sexuality is a fair thing to do, especially if you want to talk about your sexuality in your sessions.Wishing you the best care!Lanae, ...
Published Date : 7/27/2018

Thankfully, there are old school ways to try to figure this out AND technology available to help answer the question. The old school method would be to look at the date of your last period(menstrual cycle). Ovulation (when the ovum/egg pops out of the ovary) occurs roughly half way through your cycle (if it's a pretty regular 28-day cycle). It's also helpful if you can recall when you had intercourse in relation to your cycle. That would help you try to estimate when conception could have occurred. The more accurate way to tell the answer would be to go to your ob/gyn. They'll likely ask you for the date of your last period as well and then they can order an ultrasound. I am not aware of facilities that will do an ultrasound earlier than 9-12 weeks since the developing embryo would be so small before that. For more about pregnancy, check this out: Hope this helps. ...
Published Date : 7/6/2018

Don't worry about how much you masturbate at this point. Masturbation is a form of self soothing. It feels good, right. And it sounds like right now you're mourning the loss. So forgive the ourself a bit. And I hear you that Porn can be expensive- You could change it up by reading erotica or finding an adult magazine or two that suits you instead.I would encourage you to find activities that get you out of the house and doing other things you enjoy. Movies,Books, Dinner out with your friends. Hiking in nature, Take a class. It's okay to ask for some company from your friends. If you're recently divorced they might not know how they could help you through this. Ask them for suggestions of things to do too. I'm sure there are many other things you can do with your time that may also serve to help you get her off your mind.Of course you're afraid to be in love again. You hurt your heart. Just know that it does get better with time - you'll just need to take some inspired action in the meantime to start focusing on something else for a while....
Published Date : 10/17/2018

No. Not at all. It's your body.Isn't this the same messaging we want to give our kids? That no one should touch them either Same thing....
Published Date : 10/17/2018

Is it bad to get pregnant before marriage? That's a good question with lots of layers.Bad to me indicates a judgment call. Bad in whose eyes? To the church and lots of parents, yes mostly. To friends and family? Maybe yes to the ones who don't understand the concept of unconditional love?.Some other stuff to consider outside of the idea of bad?, married or not. Keep in mind this is your role for the next 18 years?Are you ready to raise a child?If not, do you have reliable assistance in family or friends?Do you have access to good prenatal care?Is dad staying in the picture?If so, it is important to sit with your partner and discuss the normally I discussed gender roles of moms and dads: things like who will stay home when baby is sick, who will do what chores,There are more questions than these of course. You'll know what applies to you best. Lots of people will share their opinions with h you unsolicited. You are under no obligation to act on any of these.I'm not going to judge you and I personally don't think it's bad. It may bring some challenges. Good luck in your decision if this is something you face right now....
Published Date : 8/9/2018

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