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In fact, there was a moment when I met the guy I'm with now, early into our dating where after more than a few drinks* I told him I think I'm falling in love with you?. He said, hmmm. I was stunned that it came out of my mouth! The next am I called him and explained it was less I want to get engaged and get married? and more ?.I could see spending a lot more time with you?. He understood and explained that the last woman he dated gave him an ultimatum about getting engaged. ...
Published Date : 3/27/2019

Why are you stressing a need to confirm anything if you're 14-years-old? You have plenty of time to discover and explore your sexuality as you age.While some teens may be certain of how they identify at your age, many others feel the same way as you. Things can be confusing and change rapidly as you're developing through puberty and adolescence. And honestly, there isn't any rule that says you must declare your sexual orientation by 9th grade. Take your time.If I were you, knowing what I know now, I'd spend time on developing long-term friendships and focusing on my studies. Those things are more important in the long run....
Published Date : 12/5/2018

Try to start with your attitude toward your spouse. Bring in more love, compassion, listening, flirty moments, loving, non-sexual touch. Basically, all the thing YOU would want your partner to do to you.You can approach this two ways: talk about it before hand to get them on board with you or you could try to see if they notice your efforts.This one can be tricky amd should only be attempted if you?re okay woth going a few days without a response.If your partner doesn?t respond or reciprocate, then sit down with them to have a talk. You can say that in an effort to get things moving again you have been trying something new but it seems they haven?t noticed and see what?s on their mind. Go in with facts and try not to be hurt or feel rejected. You never know if they?ve had a lot on their mind and your efforts were overlooked.As we age, there are more things on our minds that we didn?t have when we were younger. Allow for some of that as well....
Published Date : 8/16/2020

YES!Totally normal.You're totally permitted to crush on other women as a straight woman. Here are some of mine:Gillian Anderson https://goo.gl/images/PhPeXJRobin Wright-PennCarrie FisherWonder WomanI have lots more! Seems there's a pattern though. I guess it's just that these women/characters are strong, and powerful, AND beautiful. What's not to love?No need to be jealous of them. Just embrace the parts of you that are similar (and trust me, it's there). Just send them energetic love and appreciation and think to yourself, the beauty in me recognizes the beauty in you.It's not a scarcity model. There's more than enough beauty to go around. And you're not in competition with any other woman because no other woman can compare to you. Another woman's beauty doesn't diminish yours....
Published Date : 11/26/2018

YES. Perhaps you're discovering that there's more to attraction than just good looks....
Published Date : 12/5/2018

Hey, do you have a minute? I'd like to discuss something.?I notice something's off. You say you still find me attractive, but I see these behaviors (list specifics here). Because these examples don't match what you say, I have a hard time believing what you're saying. How can we fix this??You may need to see a therapist who can help walk you through with this....
Published Date : 10/18/2018

Because it's harder to find a man who can mentally dominate a woman.Lol jk...
Published Date : 10/16/2018

It may sound strange, but before I can answer this I'd have to know more about you or the profile you're using. Sometimes we attract what we put out there. I found this to be the case when I had a bunch of sexy-ish pics on my dating profile. I attracted a bunch of lame dudes who wrote hey? or wassup sexy? in messages on the dating sites. They were only looking for hookups. Nothing wrong with that - at forst that's kinda what I wanted too. But then it became annoying. I shifted away from the sexy pics on my profile and put up pics the superficial guys would skip over. I ended up getting better quality matches. I also got pretty specific that I was open to a relationship and not looking for hookups. That ?relationship? word also helped weed out the fuckboys....
Published Date : 10/17/2018

Most men, Do you have data for that?I'm not sure how old the OP is on this question but it seems like an immature viewpoint. I know lots of grown men (not to mention both of my teenage daughters!) who appreciate a squishy tummy. They associate it with comfort and warmth and nurturing and love....
Published Date : 10/15/2018

You would have to ask the kind, attractive, sociable and personable woman how she feels. This could be her choice. Assuming she is relegated to such a fate seems like the result of a very heteronormative socialization (one that assumes as normal all what a pair of a man and a woman do). Not all women want or need to find a man to marry. They can live happy, fulfilled lives full of love from family, friends, and chosen family anytime. It could also be that she feels there aren't presently any suitable males in her area to her liking. Again, her choice. If you're not too judgmental and you can listen well, perhaps you'll become a safe enough person for her to open up to you. Then, you can have a nice discussion....
Published Date : 7/22/2018

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