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Thank you for the A2A.i hear bitterness in your question. Maybe even some entitlement. For instance, phrases like proper relationship and friendzoned constantly. I don't know people in any gender who want to have sex with folks oozing bitterness and entitlement.Instead of getting offended or frustrated by the friend zone, why not wallow in it? Have fun, Play, Really spend a lot of time in it as if it were the kiddie pool. Ever watched kids play? They're in the moment having fun. They aren't concerned with things like proper relationships or other bullshit adult rules?.I rather think that friendship is the best way to figure out if you want to date someone. Like, can I stand them enough to spend a lot of time with them?A proper relationship to me means that we're probably living together, we're having sex together, and they're probably my best friend. If you're fucking someone and you don't even really like them, then why are you with them?The best sex I've ever had is with my current partner and it mostly has to do with our communication;a) the connection we have developed. We actually spent a lot of time dating together before we decided to be exclusive and I discovered over time that I wanted to spend more time with him, andb) how honest we are with each other. He knows things about me that I've never shared with previous partners. If we weren't friends then I wouldn't feel safe to do that. That vulnerability makes me feel closer to him and want to do more sexy stuff with him.Don't put so much pressure on yourself to get it on with these folks. Just have fun with them and remove the pressure of sex for now. Then up your flirt game and have more fun.Wishing you success....
Published Date : 2/4/2020

How many genders do *I* believe there are? I don't think it is a question of belief. Science and the lived experience of humans can inform us here.Because humans are incredibly complex beings and there are definitely more than two genders.To start with, gender is multifaceted. There'sgender identity (how one identifies or thinks of themself), gender expression (how one dresses or otherwise presents themself), sexual and romantic orientation (or the absence of one or both), and biological sex (this is what most people think of when they think of gender - the genital parts one is born with. The boy or girl? label put on the birth certificate. We are discovering that the binary that we are taught - male or female - is antiquated. There are intersex variations as well - chromosomal, hormonal, gonadal variations that make people unique.Also, because you were assigned a gender at birth doesn't mean it's the one that fits for you. This is where you might see AFAB, which means assigned female at birth or AMAB for male.Any of those 4 above areas related to gender are a spectrum.So to come up with a number. I'm guessing the same number as the number of possible points on a line between points A and B - infinite.So, what does this mean for the average everyday person?? If people have a tough time absorbing this, and it doesn't immediately relate to us in our everyday lives, then why not just let folks live their lives? Why force people into boxes? Because it's convenient for us?Nah. Live and let live. All God's creation. And all that....
Published Date : 1/20/2020

YES, of course.I asked my partner this and he started to fantasize out loud about being f*cked by me, having his own titties, and just laying there during sex (ouch! LOL)Thirty seconds later he lamented having to do all the cooking and cleaning.Edited to add: I wanted to point out that My partner and I were laughing at the sexist joke above but realized it was important to add this context: we laughed because we laugh at the typical tropes around gender because they're a bit ridiculous.As it is, we live as the opposite genders? already, or at least don't ascribe to the behaviors that are typically assigned to our gender assigned at birth. For example, I'm the one who fixes things around the house and he's the one who pays attention to his clothing. He has been meticulous about skin care since he was 12. He's more high maintenance than I am. He's more moody than I am. I don't like to shop. I like to tell people what to do. He's more into salads and I'm more meat and potatoes.Gender is a social construct and puts us into boxes. I love him as a person and what is between his legs is less important to me than what's between his ears....
Published Date : 3/24/2019

Why would I have to find a woman to have sex with??If I were a man for a day, I'd want to spend that day not caring about all of the other things I normally have to think about every day in my lived experience of being a woman in America.Like running outside at night and not worrying about being raped. Like making more money than a womxn doing the same job. Or pee standing up (even though I think I'd still sit down to pee because comfort!). To name a few examples.SMH. Dudes gotta make everything about sex. :D...
Published Date : 11/21/2019

I am a mother of two girls. Yes, I am okay with a person who is transgender walking into a restroom while either of my children is present.Have you ever been in a Women's bathroom? There aren't any urinals in a women's bathroom so no one is whipping out their junk for all to see. We have stalls to do our private business. The only interaction with strangers in a bathroom might be a person asking if the stall next to them has toilet paper. That's it.And besides, that this is a problem now just boggles my mind. I'm sure trans folks have been using the restrooms they need all along until someone like you thought it needed to be brought to our attention. Just pee. poop, primp and gtfo. Stop worrying about who is using which bathroom....
Published Date : 9/9/2018

My daughter and I stopped after reading your first sentence. We both had different interpretations of your use of the word downstairs. My daughter thought you meant that you were viewing the individual from below a flight of stairs, looking up. I thought you might be asking about a subterranean bar with a drag show, It was only after reading the second sentence that we could guess you meant their genital region. I share our first impressions vulnerably, not with the intention to shame you, but instead to let you know it's okay to say genitals instead of using the euphemism downstairs. You asked if they should wear woman's panties? I personally think anyone should wear any kind of underwear they feel like wearing. If I want to wear my partner's boxer briefs because I'm wearing a short dress I just need to make sure it's OK with my partner. And that they're clean. ...
Published Date : 7/6/2018

I would say ask at your favorite retailer. They usually have stylists on staff who work for ?free? (free to you, maybe they get a commission of sales from the store), and who know the products in their store, and who are (usually) trained in customer service.Aside from that, if you?re looking for any woman to help you, you?re still likely going to pay for it some way. Ideally you?re offering money for their time and not expecting them to do this labor for free. (Ladies who are reading this, pay attention and know your TIME = MONEY. Value it!!).You could start with your circle of friends to see if someone knows someone. When you get a name or two, I suggest you to meet her clients or otherwise see examples of people they?ve worked with or ?dressed? since their style leanings might not match yours. Really approach this as a business relationship because it is.If however, you?re doing this to find someone to date, open a dating profile and ask clearly for this help. Being clear about what you wish to get out of the relationship is always a good thing....
Published Date : 8/8/2018

Do you know the story of Tiresias?Tiresias | Greek mythology Tiresias said women derive greater pleasure.But for life outside of myths, look solely at the anatomy. Penises and clitorises are basically the same tissue, just configured differently. The scrotum is basically the labia, just sewn shut (see scrotal raphe?). We likely have more in common than folks would like to admit.I guess instead of asking who gets greater enjoyment?, just revel in the fact that we all get pleasure! Celebrate that instead of comparing and contrasting....
Published Date : 7/9/2019

You raise a good point. I imagine mostly because it's seen as a feminine thing to do. I personally like seeing men's bodies but I'm picky about how it's revealed. Have you seen the Ezra Miller Playboy shoot?! Omg soooo gooood. That works for me.If you wanna seduce a woman in this way, the right woman will dig it. You'll recognize the wrong woman by her reaction. And her reaction is revealing her own issues, none of which are about you....
Published Date : 11/26/2018

Because it's harder to find a man who can mentally dominate a woman.Lol jk...
Published Date : 10/16/2018

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