I think it's going to be whatever the person entering it thinks it is.
That may feel like a cop out answer but if you go in thinking your spouse is a ball and chain then you're going to behave accordingly. Your spouse is going to feel it, and it?s not gonna be a great thing for both of you.
Talk with your spouse-to-be to determine if you're on the same page. How much would it suck if you wanted a heartfelt agreement but they wanted a contract? If you both go in thinking it's a business relationship or contract, make sure all the points are negotiated up front (well, do some version of this even if it's a heartfelt agreement TBH).
Good luck.
I think it's going to be whatever the person entering it thinks it is.
That may feel like a cop out answer but if you go in thinking your spouse is a ball and chain then you're going to behave accordingly. Your spouse is going to feel it, and it?s not gonna be a great thing for both of you.
Talk with your spouse-to-be to determine if you're on the same page. How much would it suck if you wanted a heartfelt agreement but they wanted a contract? If you both go in thinking it's a business relationship or contract, make sure all the points are negotiated up front (well, do some version of this even if it's a heartfelt agreement TBH).
Good luck.