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Yes, you can be a sexually healthy female if you are masturbating with or without porn. It doesn't matter what kind of porn. It's understandable if you get aroused by gay male porn. Men have a very visible indicator of arousal - their erection - and that can be harder to fake. It may be easier for some female actors to fake arousal and simply perform for the camera - they may or may not be getting pleasure out of their sexual interactions. You may be picking up on that subtle faking distinction. I find the porn that's labeled female centric or produced by female directors or producers tends to be more authentic to portraying female desire*. (*no disrespect to any male directors/producers who have been creating scenarios where female pleasure is the subject, not her as the object - keep at it). Celebrate the fact that you have found something that turns you on. Ignore any messaging that tells you you need to be turned on a certain way. Accept that your pleasure is important however it shows up. (And for the record, I like some gay male porn too.)...
Published Date : 7/22/2018

A condition Not likely. You don't say how old you are now or how long it's been since having sex for the first time. Perhaps you just don't feel an urge to have sex that much at all - that's totally okay! - and it may be why you delayed to have sex in the first place.It sounds like your also fortunate that no one ever forced you to engage in sexual activity before you were ready. Some people aren't that lucky for their first times.Have you ever heard the term asexual? It is a sexual orientation for people who don't feel a sexual attraction to others. Some asexual people may have a level of interest in affection, friendships, or marriage though. Asexuality is different from celibacy. Celibacy is a choice not to engage in sexual activity with others.Your desire, or lack thereof, is what it is. Try not to make a problem out of it. Somebody else might try to sell you pills to resolve your condition but essentially they're just making money off your insecurities. I'm not sure you need them.I'm sorry the general culture makes people think there's something wrong with them if they don't feel horny all the time. Don't force yourself to feel something that you don't. You're just fine the way you are....
Published Date : 10/5/2018

The pressure may lessen after asking the question here but it may be just as intense. I'd say the taboo or forbidden nature of seeing someone other than our partner naked keeps that image fresh in your mind. If you were my partner I'd welcome you telling me something along the lines of ,I saw your friend naked the other day. I might have other questions like, did you like what you saw?? or What'd you see?? We might even laugh about it. The reason I'd be so secure in hearing this kind of information is because I trust my partner, and he and I talk a lot about stuff like this. I'm human and notice other attractive men just like he sometimes notices attractive women. We talk about it. It's not taboo. But because doing anything with those other people is not within the current relationship agreement we have, I respect him enough not to act on it. All this to say, I'm not gonna tell you what to do even though you asked. :) I hope in reading this you can see how I have handled it in the past. Maybe you can figure out a way to tell your girlfriend, while helping her feel secure that seeing the friend naked is really meaningless in the grand scheme of things, and that you are just as committed to her. Maybe the two of you can have a laugh about the naked situation too. ...
Published Date : 7/6/2018

I hope by girl.you mean person over the age of consent? Also, why TF do you need ?very basic videos showing very explicitly how to have full sexual intercourse with a girl? ?? Because that's exactly the description of #childpornography.UPDATED: I'm really glad you worded that question better this time around. My advice? There are great adult video companies that will who explicit sex - Wicked? series by jessica drake is pretty good.But, that said, a video can only do so much. My best advice is to seek out an actual class. There's so much more you can get to learn than you would just watching a video....
Published Date : 5/17/2019

Of course that's okay.You don't have to pursue anyone if you don't want to or don't feel like it. If someone tells you you should, examine their motives. Trust me: you don't have to do anything you don't want to.And know that your feelings may change. Tomorrow, or a few months from now, or years from now you might change your mind and want to pursue other women. That's totally fine too. You get to decide what's best for you. No one else....
Published Date : 8/16/2020

It?s normal for some people to be horny. I have kind of an off-the-beaten-pass suggestion for you, if you?re interested. It?s based upon a hypothesis I have? Touch is a basic human need. One way you could explore if it?s truly wanting to bang/fuck/have sexual relations OR if your basic touch needs are NOT being met. There?s a fantastic group at www.Cuddle Party.com that holds workshops where you get to explore non-sexual/non-sexualized touch AND learn how to negotiate what you want, explore your boundaries, and say ?NO? to others and live to talk about it. But seriously, everybody should learn how to say no and understand it?s not always a rejection but the person taking care of themself. We can never know their entire backstory. Again, I want to assure you that some people are indeed horny. That?s normal for some. But, if you?re really curious as to why, try exploring touch via the cuddle party route (special note*** I?d advise you seek out ONLY groups recommended by the official cuddle party website. Why? Because lots of people say they do cuddle parties but they don?t have the same strict guidelines and safe environment that Cuddle Party creates. Hope this helps you explore your ?why?. ...
Published Date : 7/17/2018

So many people ask some variation of am I normal?? ? It's normal for you and that's okay.No use stressing about it. Celebrate that you have a strong urge for sex. I hate to burst your bubble but it probably won't be that way forever. Things like diet, exercise, stress about relationships/marriage, work, career, or kids can all have a negative effect on our drive and can come seemingly out of nowhere. Just enjoy it while it lasts!...
Published Date : 9/18/2018

Why? I'd care less about their sexual orientation and more about if they were (accused or) convicted for sexual crimes or sexual assault....
Published Date : 7/27/2018

I know people like to have definitive answers or look for signs? that some behaviors means something. I'd suggest to relax and not look so much for .what does this mean?, but rather just notice that it happens. It may be less the person's gender and more the person and/or their energy/spirit/soul that turns you on, aside from gender altogether. You just never know. Besides, there's nothing wrong with being hetero-, homo-, bi-, poly-, or asexual. They are just orientations. And for some people, these attractions can shift or change as they get older. You know, it's not the activities or sexual behaviors you engage in that determine your sexual orientation. For example, some ?straight? heterosexual men like to be penetrated anally (?pegging?) and that doesn?t make them gay. Still other men have sex with men (?MSM?) and don?t identify as gay? Any label is really only for you to claim, and only if you want it. It's nobody else?s business to label you (just as we all should probably should refrain from labeling others). You're not alone in your question though, lots of people wonder if they are straight or gay and how would one know in the first place. But here's an interesting take on the question: I hope this helps you. ...
Published Date : 7/6/2018

Asexuality is legit and you are not fucked up.Here's a nice article from Justin Lehmillers website explaining how scientists measure asexuality. Are You Asexual? Here's How Scientists Measure AsexualityHere's a research article about asexuality and why it matters that it exists. https://www.researchgate.net/pub...I see you. You are worthy and amazing just the way you are. To help you find a community of people just like you so you feel less alone, check out The Asexual Visibility and Education NetworkI hope this gives you some good leads.Lanae...
Published Date : 8/2/2018

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