Because patriarchy.
It sucks; patriarchy dictates a lot of the unspoken expectations for behavior and men often are victims of this.
For example, the idea that men have to be these hyper sexual dudes, always a wanting sex, always ready for sex, and once they're doing it, be rock hard, 12 inches long, and go all night.
Reality is that messaging is really far from how things work, especially over the life span. And it sets a LOT of men up for huge disappointment as they age.
Sometimes it's one of the things we work on in coaching together.
Most womxn don't care if a man is a virgin. They may show surprise but only because our patriarchal society has trained us to expect men to be players?. If they do care, then they are the asshole.
Because patriarchy.
It sucks; patriarchy dictates a lot of the unspoken expectations for behavior and men often are victims of this.
For example, the idea that men have to be these hyper sexual dudes, always a wanting sex, always ready for sex, and once they're doing it, be rock hard, 12 inches long, and go all night.
Reality is that messaging is really far from how things work, especially over the life span. And it sets a LOT of men up for huge disappointment as they age.
Sometimes it's one of the things we work on in coaching together.
Most womxn don't care if a man is a virgin. They may show surprise but only because our patriarchal society has trained us to expect men to be players?. If they do care, then they are the asshole.