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No, not at all. It just means you don't dig that particular depiction of whatever you watched.

There is so much adult content out there. A lot is poor to bad quality, but there is some good stuff out there.

If you want real people having sex with their partners, check out MakeLoveNotPorn - social sex video sharing platform The couples on there make money for their own video submissions versus some (typically) male producer/director making porn the way he thinks sex happens. Hint: typical porn is all just someone else's fantasy.

Not enjoying porn does not mean you are gay (as if there was something wrong with being gay - there's not). Anyone telling you that is hella ignorant


Published Date : 8/12/2020

No, not at all. It just means you don't dig that particular depiction of whatever you watched.

There is so much adult content out there. A lot is poor to bad quality, but there is some good stuff out there.

If you want real people having sex with their partners, check out MakeLoveNotPorn - social sex video sharing platform The couples on there make money for their own video submissions versus some (typically) male producer/director making porn the way he thinks sex happens. Hint: typical porn is all just someone else's fantasy.

Not enjoying porn does not mean you are gay (as if there was something wrong with being gay - there's not). Anyone telling you that is hella ignorant


Published Date : 8/12/2020

i hear bitterness in your question. Maybe even some entitlement. For instance, phrases like proper relationship and friendzoned constantly. I don't know people in any gender who want to have sex with folks oozing bitterness and entitlement.

Instead of getting offended or frustrated by the friend zone, why not wallow in it? Have fun, Play, Really spend a lot of time in it as if it were the kiddie pool. Ever watched kids play? They're in the moment having fun. They aren't concerned with things like proper relationships or other bullshit adult rules?.

I rather think that friendship is the best way to figure out if you want to date someone. Like, can I stand them enough to spend a lot of time with them?

A proper relationship to me means that we're probably living together, we're having sex together, and they're probably my best friend. If you're fucking someone and you don't even really like them, then why are you with them?

The best sex I've ever had is with my current partner and it mostly has to do with our communication;

a) the connection we have developed. We actually spent a lot of time dating together before we decided to be exclusive and I discovered over time that I wanted to spend more time with him, and

b) how honest we are with each other. He knows things about me that I've never shared with previous partners. If we weren't friends then I wouldn't feel safe to do that. That vulnerability makes me feel closer to him and want to do more sexy stuff with him.

Don't put so much pressure on yourself to get it on with these folks. Just have fun with them and remove the pressure of sex for now. Then up your flirt game and have more fun.

Wishing you success.


Published Date : 2/4/2020

i hear bitterness in your question. Maybe even some entitlement. For instance, phrases like proper relationship and friendzoned constantly. I don't know people in any gender who want to have sex with folks oozing bitterness and entitlement.

Instead of getting offended or frustrated by the friend zone, why not wallow in it? Have fun, Play, Really spend a lot of time in it as if it were the kiddie pool. Ever watched kids play? They're in the moment having fun. They aren't concerned with things like proper relationships or other bullshit adult rules?.

I rather think that friendship is the best way to figure out if you want to date someone. Like, can I stand them enough to spend a lot of time with them?

A proper relationship to me means that we're probably living together, we're having sex together, and they're probably my best friend. If you're fucking someone and you don't even really like them, then why are you with them?

The best sex I've ever had is with my current partner and it mostly has to do with our communication;

a) the connection we have developed. We actually spent a lot of time dating together before we decided to be exclusive and I discovered over time that I wanted to spend more time with him, and

b) how honest we are with each other. He knows things about me that I've never shared with previous partners. If we weren't friends then I wouldn't feel safe to do that. That vulnerability makes me feel closer to him and want to do more sexy stuff with him.

Don't put so much pressure on yourself to get it on with these folks. Just have fun with them and remove the pressure of sex for now. Then up your flirt game and have more fun.

Wishing you success.


Published Date : 2/4/2020

Of course that's okay.

You don't have to pursue anyone if you don't want to or don't feel like it. If someone tells you you should, examine their motives. Trust me: you don't have to do anything you don't want to.

And know that your feelings may change. Tomorrow, or a few months from now, or years from now you might change your mind and want to pursue other women. That's totally fine too. You get to decide what's best for you. No one else.


Published Date : 8/16/2020

Of course that's okay.

You don't have to pursue anyone if you don't want to or don't feel like it. If someone tells you you should, examine their motives. Trust me: you don't have to do anything you don't want to.

And know that your feelings may change. Tomorrow, or a few months from now, or years from now you might change your mind and want to pursue other women. That's totally fine too. You get to decide what's best for you. No one else.


Published Date : 8/16/2020

There are plenty of men who don't identify as gay? but are men who sleep with men? all the same. A dating site is a place to meet people, sometimes they go there to meet people to have sex. Maybe the straight guy is on the gay dating site because he is looking to hook up without the pressure of a relationship.


Published Date : 12/6/2018

There are plenty of men who don't identify as gay? but are men who sleep with men? all the same. A dating site is a place to meet people, sometimes they go there to meet people to have sex. Maybe the straight guy is on the gay dating site because he is looking to hook up without the pressure of a relationship.


Published Date : 12/6/2018