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Yes, you can be a sexually healthy female if you are masturbating with or without porn. It doesn't matter what kind of porn. It's understandable if you get aroused by gay male porn. Men have a very visible indicator of arousal - their erection - and that can be harder to fake. It may be easier for some female actors to fake arousal and simply perform for the camera - they may or may not be getting pleasure out of their sexual interactions. You may be picking up on that subtle faking distinction. I find the porn that's labeled female centric or produced by female directors or producers tends to be more authentic to portraying female desire*. (*no disrespect to any male directors/producers who have been creating scenarios where female pleasure is the subject, not her as the object - keep at it). Celebrate the fact that you have found something that turns you on. Ignore any messaging that tells you you need to be turned on a certain way. Accept that your pleasure is important however it shows up. (And for the record, I like some gay male porn too.)


Published Date : 7/22/2018

Yes, you can be a sexually healthy female if you are masturbating with or without porn. It doesn't matter what kind of porn. It's understandable if you get aroused by gay male porn. Men have a very visible indicator of arousal - their erection - and that can be harder to fake. It may be easier for some female actors to fake arousal and simply perform for the camera - they may or may not be getting pleasure out of their sexual interactions. You may be picking up on that subtle faking distinction. I find the porn that's labeled female centric or produced by female directors or producers tends to be more authentic to portraying female desire*. (*no disrespect to any male directors/producers who have been creating scenarios where female pleasure is the subject, not her as the object - keep at it). Celebrate the fact that you have found something that turns you on. Ignore any messaging that tells you you need to be turned on a certain way. Accept that your pleasure is important however it shows up. (And for the record, I like some gay male porn too.)


Published Date : 7/22/2018

No, it's not weird to fantasize about becoming a girl for a few days. Doing so, you may develop a greater understanding, empathy, or compassion for girls/women than you had before. And you may also realize how much work some women put into becoming a human female.? You know, it's sad that girls are able to dress like boys with little repercussions but boys dressing like girls can be dangerous. Fantasies can be tricky. Sometimes they're not so practical to act out. Or it may not be safe to do so. Homophobia is a real thing and queer and trans teens experience a lot of hate, bullying and sometimes worse. I wouldn't wish this backlash on anyone. <>. This is one of this situations that I wish Quora wasn't anonymous because I'd love to hear about what you learn. Be safe.


Published Date : 7/9/2018

No, it's not weird to fantasize about becoming a girl for a few days. Doing so, you may develop a greater understanding, empathy, or compassion for girls/women than you had before. And you may also realize how much work some women put into becoming a human female.? You know, it's sad that girls are able to dress like boys with little repercussions but boys dressing like girls can be dangerous. Fantasies can be tricky. Sometimes they're not so practical to act out. Or it may not be safe to do so. Homophobia is a real thing and queer and trans teens experience a lot of hate, bullying and sometimes worse. I wouldn't wish this backlash on anyone. <>. This is one of this situations that I wish Quora wasn't anonymous because I'd love to hear about what you learn. Be safe.


Published Date : 7/9/2018

Why are you stressing a need to confirm anything if you're 14-years-old? You have plenty of time to discover and explore your sexuality as you age.

While some teens may be certain of how they identify at your age, many others feel the same way as you. Things can be confusing and change rapidly as you're developing through puberty and adolescence. And honestly, there isn't any rule that says you must declare your sexual orientation by 9th grade. Take your time.

If I were you, knowing what I know now, I'd spend time on developing long-term friendships and focusing on my studies. Those things are more important in the long run.


Published Date : 12/5/2018

Why are you stressing a need to confirm anything if you're 14-years-old? You have plenty of time to discover and explore your sexuality as you age.

While some teens may be certain of how they identify at your age, many others feel the same way as you. Things can be confusing and change rapidly as you're developing through puberty and adolescence. And honestly, there isn't any rule that says you must declare your sexual orientation by 9th grade. Take your time.

If I were you, knowing what I know now, I'd spend time on developing long-term friendships and focusing on my studies. Those things are more important in the long run.


Published Date : 12/5/2018

I hope by girl.you mean person over the age of consent? Also, why TF do you need ?very basic videos showing very explicitly how to have full sexual intercourse with a girl? ?? Because that's exactly the description of #childpornography.

UPDATED: I'm really glad you worded that question better this time around. My advice? There are great adult video companies that will who explicit sex - Wicked? series by jessica drake is pretty good.

But, that said, a video can only do so much. My best advice is to seek out an actual class. There's so much more you can get to learn than you would just watching a video.


Published Date : 5/17/2019

I hope by girl.you mean person over the age of consent? Also, why TF do you need ?very basic videos showing very explicitly how to have full sexual intercourse with a girl? ?? Because that's exactly the description of #childpornography.

UPDATED: I'm really glad you worded that question better this time around. My advice? There are great adult video companies that will who explicit sex - Wicked? series by jessica drake is pretty good.

But, that said, a video can only do so much. My best advice is to seek out an actual class. There's so much more you can get to learn than you would just watching a video.


Published Date : 5/17/2019

Of course that's okay.

You don't have to pursue anyone if you don't want to or don't feel like it. If someone tells you you should, examine their motives. Trust me: you don't have to do anything you don't want to.

And know that your feelings may change. Tomorrow, or a few months from now, or years from now you might change your mind and want to pursue other women. That's totally fine too. You get to decide what's best for you. No one else.


Published Date : 8/16/2020

Of course that's okay.

You don't have to pursue anyone if you don't want to or don't feel like it. If someone tells you you should, examine their motives. Trust me: you don't have to do anything you don't want to.

And know that your feelings may change. Tomorrow, or a few months from now, or years from now you might change your mind and want to pursue other women. That's totally fine too. You get to decide what's best for you. No one else.


Published Date : 8/16/2020

YES!

Totally normal.

You're totally permitted to crush on other women as a straight woman. Here are some of mine:

Gillian Anderson https://goo.gl/images/PhPeXJ

Robin Wright-Penn

Carrie Fisher

Wonder Woman

I have lots more! Seems there's a pattern though. I guess it's just that these women/characters are strong, and powerful, AND beautiful. What's not to love?

No need to be jealous of them. Just embrace the parts of you that are similar (and trust me, it's there). Just send them energetic love and appreciation and think to yourself, the beauty in me recognizes the beauty in you.

It's not a scarcity model. There's more than enough beauty to go around. And you're not in competition with any other woman because no other woman can compare to you. Another woman's beauty doesn't diminish yours.


Published Date : 11/26/2018

YES!

Totally normal.

You're totally permitted to crush on other women as a straight woman. Here are some of mine:

Gillian Anderson https://goo.gl/images/PhPeXJ

Robin Wright-Penn

Carrie Fisher

Wonder Woman

I have lots more! Seems there's a pattern though. I guess it's just that these women/characters are strong, and powerful, AND beautiful. What's not to love?

No need to be jealous of them. Just embrace the parts of you that are similar (and trust me, it's there). Just send them energetic love and appreciation and think to yourself, the beauty in me recognizes the beauty in you.

It's not a scarcity model. There's more than enough beauty to go around. And you're not in competition with any other woman because no other woman can compare to you. Another woman's beauty doesn't diminish yours.


Published Date : 11/26/2018

Why? I'd care less about their sexual orientation and more about if they were (accused or) convicted for sexual crimes or sexual assault.


Published Date : 7/27/2018

Why? I'd care less about their sexual orientation and more about if they were (accused or) convicted for sexual crimes or sexual assault.


Published Date : 7/27/2018

I know people like to have definitive answers or look for signs? that some behaviors means something. I'd suggest to relax and not look so much for .what does this mean?, but rather just notice that it happens. It may be less the person's gender and more the person and/or their energy/spirit/soul that turns you on, aside from gender altogether. You just never know. Besides, there's nothing wrong with being hetero-, homo-, bi-, poly-, or asexual. They are just orientations. And for some people, these attractions can shift or change as they get older. You know, it's not the activities or sexual behaviors you engage in that determine your sexual orientation. For example, some ?straight? heterosexual men like to be penetrated anally (?pegging?) and that doesn?t make them gay. Still other men have sex with men (?MSM?) and don?t identify as gay? Any label is really only for you to claim, and only if you want it. It's nobody else?s business to label you (just as we all should probably should refrain from labeling others). You're not alone in your question though, lots of people wonder if they are straight or gay and how would one know in the first place. But here's an interesting take on the question: I hope this helps you.


Published Date : 7/6/2018

I know people like to have definitive answers or look for signs? that some behaviors means something. I'd suggest to relax and not look so much for .what does this mean?, but rather just notice that it happens. It may be less the person's gender and more the person and/or their energy/spirit/soul that turns you on, aside from gender altogether. You just never know. Besides, there's nothing wrong with being hetero-, homo-, bi-, poly-, or asexual. They are just orientations. And for some people, these attractions can shift or change as they get older. You know, it's not the activities or sexual behaviors you engage in that determine your sexual orientation. For example, some ?straight? heterosexual men like to be penetrated anally (?pegging?) and that doesn?t make them gay. Still other men have sex with men (?MSM?) and don?t identify as gay? Any label is really only for you to claim, and only if you want it. It's nobody else?s business to label you (just as we all should probably should refrain from labeling others). You're not alone in your question though, lots of people wonder if they are straight or gay and how would one know in the first place. But here's an interesting take on the question: I hope this helps you.


Published Date : 7/6/2018

Asexuality is legit and you are not fucked up.

Here's a nice article from Justin Lehmillers website explaining how scientists measure asexuality. Are You Asexual? Here's How Scientists Measure Asexuality

Here's a research article about asexuality and why it matters that it exists. https://www.researchgate.net/pub...

I see you. You are worthy and amazing just the way you are. To help you find a community of people just like you so you feel less alone, check out The Asexual Visibility and Education Network

I hope this gives you some good leads.

Lanae


Published Date : 8/2/2018

Asexuality is legit and you are not fucked up.

Here's a nice article from Justin Lehmillers website explaining how scientists measure asexuality. Are You Asexual? Here's How Scientists Measure Asexuality

Here's a research article about asexuality and why it matters that it exists. https://www.researchgate.net/pub...

I see you. You are worthy and amazing just the way you are. To help you find a community of people just like you so you feel less alone, check out The Asexual Visibility and Education Network

I hope this gives you some good leads.

Lanae


Published Date : 8/2/2018

No. There's no such thing as too asexual.

Which begs the question: How would too asexual? manifest itself? Solid Independence? Giving no f*cks? Not wanting to f*ck you? What do you mean ?too asexual??


Published Date : 1/25/2020

No. There's no such thing as too asexual.

Which begs the question: How would too asexual? manifest itself? Solid Independence? Giving no f*cks? Not wanting to f*ck you? What do you mean ?too asexual??


Published Date : 1/25/2020

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