No, not at all. It just means you don't dig that particular depiction of whatever you watched.
There is so much adult content out there. A lot is poor to bad quality, but there is some good stuff out there.
If you want real people having sex with their partners, check out MakeLoveNotPorn - social sex video sharing platform The couples on there make money for their own video submissions versus some (typically) male producer/director making porn the way he thinks sex happens. Hint: typical porn is all just someone else's fantasy.
Not enjoying porn does not mean you are gay (as if there was something wrong with being gay - there's not). Anyone telling you that is hella ignorant
No, not at all. It just means you don't dig that particular depiction of whatever you watched.
There is so much adult content out there. A lot is poor to bad quality, but there is some good stuff out there.
If you want real people having sex with their partners, check out MakeLoveNotPorn - social sex video sharing platform The couples on there make money for their own video submissions versus some (typically) male producer/director making porn the way he thinks sex happens. Hint: typical porn is all just someone else's fantasy.
Not enjoying porn does not mean you are gay (as if there was something wrong with being gay - there's not). Anyone telling you that is hella ignorant
Someone asked me something similar recently here on quora. I didn't meet my S.O. through Craigslist Personals, but through Match(dot)com.
Lanae St.John, DHS, ACS's answer to How did you meet your significant other?
Someone asked me something similar recently here on quora. I didn't meet my S.O. through Craigslist Personals, but through Match(dot)com.
Lanae St.John, DHS, ACS's answer to How did you meet your significant other?
Thank you for the A2A
I did the opposite. I convinced myself I didn't need to know anything about Caesarean Sections because I won't need one?.
Well, I had an emergency c-section. Turns out my baby had the umbilical cord around her neck. It freaked me out a bit because when the time came it was an emergency and I didn't know what was happening (partially because I was giving birth in Germany and I didn't yet speak the language).
I understand that you could start to worry but try your best not to. I mean, attend to your body and pay attention to your intuition. But try to enjoy this time as best you can. It goes so fast.
Thank you for the A2A
I did the opposite. I convinced myself I didn't need to know anything about Caesarean Sections because I won't need one?.
Well, I had an emergency c-section. Turns out my baby had the umbilical cord around her neck. It freaked me out a bit because when the time came it was an emergency and I didn't know what was happening (partially because I was giving birth in Germany and I didn't yet speak the language).
I understand that you could start to worry but try your best not to. I mean, attend to your body and pay attention to your intuition. But try to enjoy this time as best you can. It goes so fast.
Sure they do.
Despite popular culture telling you one thing, ladies, guys, and gender non-binary folks are probably a lot more similar than you'd expect. And at the same time, you're going to find big differences from what you have been told about lots of sexual behaviors and what folks like.
People of all genders have different desires. Some will wait to have sex with a partner until they're in a relationship, others will want to have one-night stands, and others will be anywhere in the middle of those extremes.
Don't judge anyone for where they are on that spectrum. You cannot begin to know their life to understand their choices.
Sure they do.
Despite popular culture telling you one thing, ladies, guys, and gender non-binary folks are probably a lot more similar than you'd expect. And at the same time, you're going to find big differences from what you have been told about lots of sexual behaviors and what folks like.
People of all genders have different desires. Some will wait to have sex with a partner until they're in a relationship, others will want to have one-night stands, and others will be anywhere in the middle of those extremes.
Don't judge anyone for where they are on that spectrum. You cannot begin to know their life to understand their choices.
Should you tell your parents that you got your period? Why wouldn't you? Do you have any indication that telling them might not be safe or something? Have they given you the impression that this kind of sharing isn't okay?
In a family where one is able to share or speak openly, this conversation should be okay. But since I don't know where you are in the world, nor the prevailing ideas about menstruation there, and based on the fact that you're asking this question I sense you cannot.
Do you have a trusted adult or doctor in your life? If you cannot tell your parents, it would be good to tell them. There is knowledge you need to have to manage your cycle, like timing your cycle to anticipate it for the next months, what kinds of menstrual care products you can use and how to use them, and information about what to expect throughout the month. They can help you with this. Just simply say, I have started menstruating and I'm not sure what to do. What tips or advice do you have for me?? And they can help out.
(Congratulations. Your body is maturing into adulthood. :D)
Should you tell your parents that you got your period? Why wouldn't you? Do you have any indication that telling them might not be safe or something? Have they given you the impression that this kind of sharing isn't okay?
In a family where one is able to share or speak openly, this conversation should be okay. But since I don't know where you are in the world, nor the prevailing ideas about menstruation there, and based on the fact that you're asking this question I sense you cannot.
Do you have a trusted adult or doctor in your life? If you cannot tell your parents, it would be good to tell them. There is knowledge you need to have to manage your cycle, like timing your cycle to anticipate it for the next months, what kinds of menstrual care products you can use and how to use them, and information about what to expect throughout the month. They can help you with this. Just simply say, I have started menstruating and I'm not sure what to do. What tips or advice do you have for me?? And they can help out.
(Congratulations. Your body is maturing into adulthood. :D)
Hate to say it, but sometimes adding a mate takes away from happiness and adds drama, stress, aggravation, or annoyance.
If you're already very happy, keep doing what you're doing.
Hate to say it, but sometimes adding a mate takes away from happiness and adds drama, stress, aggravation, or annoyance.
If you're already very happy, keep doing what you're doing.
Do I like a man to be rough with my pussy?
No. And yes.
You see, there's a lot of gray area in the word rough, so that would need some serious clarification about what actual behaviors constitute rough? GENTLY tugging at the labia? Maybe. So rough as to cause bleeding or injury to the pussy? HELL NO. I?m not into that.
(If you are, and you can clearly communicate your boundaries and when things need to stop; more power to you.)
Personally, I would also not let just *any* man be rough with me. Trust is a really big component here. Like HUGE. I would never look to hook up sex for this kind of activity because idk this person from anyone else on the street. Hell, they could be a domestic abuser just out cruising for a piece of ass. That creep is not for me. This is another reason I prefer to reserve my sexual activity to a trusted lover/partner. I trust they will not hurt me physically, or emotionally.
The rough thing can only come with deep trust. That what's I'm really into.
Do I like a man to be rough with my pussy?
No. And yes.
You see, there's a lot of gray area in the word rough, so that would need some serious clarification about what actual behaviors constitute rough? GENTLY tugging at the labia? Maybe. So rough as to cause bleeding or injury to the pussy? HELL NO. I?m not into that.
(If you are, and you can clearly communicate your boundaries and when things need to stop; more power to you.)
Personally, I would also not let just *any* man be rough with me. Trust is a really big component here. Like HUGE. I would never look to hook up sex for this kind of activity because idk this person from anyone else on the street. Hell, they could be a domestic abuser just out cruising for a piece of ass. That creep is not for me. This is another reason I prefer to reserve my sexual activity to a trusted lover/partner. I trust they will not hurt me physically, or emotionally.
The rough thing can only come with deep trust. That what's I'm really into.
Ah love. What is it? How do you define it? How does it feel?
I didn't know unconditional love when I was younger; my experience felt very conditional - to get it, I had to be a good girl.
It wasn't until I had children of my own that I could understand unconditional love. With my current partner, I'm not sure why it's happening, but I love him in a similar way as my kids - without conditions. Novel, eh? AND! The most remarkable thing is it just keeps growing!
We've gone through so much together and had so many experiences. But the piece that seems to be the best is that when we talk, I?m sharing things without a filter. I couldn't share everything with my parents growing up because then I wasn't a good girl. Angry? Nope. Sad? Nope. It wasn't safe to maintain my image.
When we begin to behave with our partner like we behave with our parent - hiding, not always being honest - we do harm the relationship. This is why I think it's so valuable to be friends with and like your partner (again, novel, huh? LOL). My besties ride with me through thick and thin. They don't judge and call me on my shit. A partner you can be that raw with just like a bestie? Well so far, it's getting better and better.
Ah love. What is it? How do you define it? How does it feel?
I didn't know unconditional love when I was younger; my experience felt very conditional - to get it, I had to be a good girl.
It wasn't until I had children of my own that I could understand unconditional love. With my current partner, I'm not sure why it's happening, but I love him in a similar way as my kids - without conditions. Novel, eh? AND! The most remarkable thing is it just keeps growing!
We've gone through so much together and had so many experiences. But the piece that seems to be the best is that when we talk, I?m sharing things without a filter. I couldn't share everything with my parents growing up because then I wasn't a good girl. Angry? Nope. Sad? Nope. It wasn't safe to maintain my image.
When we begin to behave with our partner like we behave with our parent - hiding, not always being honest - we do harm the relationship. This is why I think it's so valuable to be friends with and like your partner (again, novel, huh? LOL). My besties ride with me through thick and thin. They don't judge and call me on my shit. A partner you can be that raw with just like a bestie? Well so far, it's getting better and better.
Can you please clarify your terms?
Can you please clarify your terms?
I don't know about elsewhere but lots of people focus their attention on the feeling of pleasure while they're approaching the point of orgasm. That's what gets some people off.
If by elsewhere you mean not thinking about bills, work, yard work, family squabbles, etc, then YES.
I don't know about elsewhere but lots of people focus their attention on the feeling of pleasure while they're approaching the point of orgasm. That's what gets some people off.
If by elsewhere you mean not thinking about bills, work, yard work, family squabbles, etc, then YES.