Media & Podcast Guest Appearances:

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Recognition for ‘READ ME: A Parental Primer for “The Talk”‘

BookLife Prize Nonfiction Contest, Semifinalist (Self-help/Relationships Category) 2020

As Seen In 2020

Pornhub Premium Lover Membership Is The Shared Facebook Page Of Porn |

Sex During COVID Guidelines: What’s the Safest Position? | MEL Magazine

A Guide To Your Body’s Pleasure Chemicals” | Swell

Sex and the Immune System: Is Eating Ass Healthy & Safe?” | MEL Magazine

An Expert Reveals Her Top Tips For Having Amazing Shower Sex” | PopSugar UK

How Millennial Parents Have the Puberty Talk to Kids vs. Past Generations” |

Is It OK For My Child To Masturbate?” |

How to Put the Fun and Spark Back Into Initiating Sex” |

Hustle Porn […] Too Tired To Have Sex” | MEL Magazine

Where Can I Find Lingerie That Won’t Make Me Feel Ridiculous” | Ask Kait for Blood + Milk

“5 Things We Can Each Do To Make Social Media And The Internet A Kinder And More Tolerant Place”, With Dr. Lanae St.John | Authority Magazine,

Sex Experts Share 6 Ways Using Ice Cubes Can Heat Up Your Sex Life | Well + Good

Where Can I Find Lingerie That Won’t Make Me Feel Ridiculous? | Blood + Milk

Sex Positive Families x The MamaSutra – Chat (March 2020)

Married to Doctors, “Sex Stress, and More” (May 2020)

Story-a-Day Podcast with Julie Duffy, “Writing Love & Intimacy with Dr. Lanae St.John“, (May 2020)

Imperfect Thriving, “Love, Sex & Dating in Midlife & What To Teach Our Kids About Love & Dating” IT 016 (April 2020)

How We Talk About Sex, with Eric Leviton. “Lanae St.John Returns to HWTAS.” Ep#163 (March 2020)

Sex with Emily Podcast, “Your Guide to Having ‘The Talk’ with Dr. Lanae St.John“, (March 2020)

Tools of Life Podcast, “Five Building Blocks To Having (and CONTINUING) “The Talk” With Your Teens“, (February 2020)

The Dr. Ali Griffith Show, “Sex Connect: Self, Kids, and Others“, (Feb 13, 2020)


On KTLA Morning Show Talking About Kids and Holiday Kisses & Hugs. (December 2019)

Why You Shouldn’t Force Your Child To Sit On Santa’s Lap |

How to Give Great Oral Sex | Shape

How to Give a Good Blow Job, According to Actual Experts |

7 Bad Sex Habits to Break Before You’re Married |

Yes, you need to talk to your kids about porn. Here’s how to do it |

Single Moms and Dating: Exactly What to Know |  O – The Oprah Magazine

Spice Up Your Sex Life With These Tricks Experts Say Actually Work | O – The Oprah Magazine

How to Play with Balls: Your Guide to Testicle Massage |

11 BDSM Games Everyone Should Try at Least Once |

How to Perform the World’s ‘Most Nerve-Racking Sex Position’: The Standing 69 |’s MEL Magazine

When Your Kid Walks In On You Having Sex, Here’s What To Do According To An Expert |

Lovehoney Sex Expert Interview: Dr Lanae St John |

9 New Year’s Resolutions For Better Sex | Blood + Milk

The Sunday Night Health Show, with Maureen McGrath “Bad Sex Habits” (Nov 24, 2019)

The Sunday Night Health Show, with Maureen McGrath. (Oct 27, 2019)

The Sunday Night Health Show, with Maureen McGrath. (Jul 7, 2019)

My Kids Don’t Watch Porn – Here Are My Proven Tips, for Edward Shorter. (07/2019)

The Aha Moment Podcast, Jealousy (07/2019)

Drunk Sex, With Jenn Wodtke. (Ep. 22, 01/2019)

The Step-mom Strong Podcast, w/ Nathalie Savell (Ep. 017, 01/2019)



Sex Blogging Superheroes | Sexual Health Magazine. Page 34

Sex Stories We Love |

How VR Porn Is Penetrating Our Minds, Erecting The Future Of Virtual Reality |

Self-Help Patrol: Taint Accupuncture | MEL Magazine

Sex and Parenting 101 |

How We Talk About Sex, with Eric Leviton. Ep #125 (November 2017)

Sex Positive Me, “Building Blocks to a Healthy Sexuality” Ep#40 (September 2017)

Sexology, with Dr. MoaliTalking To Your Teen About Sex. (August 2017)



Penis Love: Uncut with Lanae St.John” by

The Perineum with Lanae St.John” by

What Your Eye Doctor Can Teach You About Sex with Lanae St.John” by

Have a Ball with Lanae St.John” by

The Ups and Downs of Being a Man with Lanae St.John” by

Wearables and the Innovation of Sexual Intimacy” by TechZulu Inc. Moderator

“Sex Is Back: Sex in 20 Years” by Pleasure Chest. Featured Sex Educator

“Sex Is Back: Making Time for Sex” by Pleasure Chest. Featured Sex Educator

“Sex Is Back: Orgasms” by Pleasure Chest. Featured Sex Educator

Sex Is Back: Golden Showers” by Pleasure Chest. Featured Sex Educator


What Does Eat Me Mean to You |

He Said, She Said: 10 Things We Wish Sex Ed Taught Us | HuffPo

Sex Toys: The 4 Most Popular Sex Toys in America | Women’s Health Magazine

New Sex Toy Family Called Pulsators Could Elicit More Emotions Than Vibrators During Masturbation |

Sexxx Talk Radio, by Progressive Radio Network. Co-Host.

Tagline: “Are you ready for the Sex-Ed you wish you had?” (weekly 2012-2013)

I have problems getting wet, how do I fix that?” YouTube by WhatTheyAreAsking. Sexologist

I was told I am too fat for birth control. What ARE my options?” YouTube by WhatTheyAreAsking. Sexologist

Any tips to be able to fit more of him in my mouth?” YouTube by WhatTheyAreAsking. Sexologist


How Sex Toys Make Sex Sizzle |

Good Vibes Sex Educators’ Favorite Sex Toys |

Awesome Resource for Moms |

Doin’ it to the beat- Sexy 90s R&B Edition | The Redhead Bedhead blog

Use Your Words – Ep 3: Sex Positive Parenting | The Center for Sexual Pleasure And Health

10 Mistakes Couples Make That Destroy Their Sex Lives |

This Is What A Feminist Looks Like: Lanae | The Mamafesto

Why Porn Sex Is the Safest Sex |

“Why Do Men Love “Barely Legal” Porn?” |

Sex Nerd Sandra #44: The Birds ‘n’ Bees: Kids | Nerdist, (2012)

Get Your Fill, by FCC Free Radio. Guest Sex Expert (2012)

“50 Shades of F*ck me” YouTube by NotSoSecret video, Sex Educator

A Lot of Penises” YouTube by The MamaSutra. Self

Use Your Words – Ep 3: Sex Positive Parenting” YouTube by TheCSPH. (Named in this video at 5:35 in the video.) Sex Educator

“Sex Toys Made Simple” – YouTube by NotSoSecret video, Sex Educator

Sexploration with Monika, by FCC Free Radio. Guest Sex Expert (2011)

Internet ~ Project offering tools for parents to teach the younger generations about porn. ~ Expert Among Us. Top Women’s Lifestyle platform.

Mom Bloggers Club ~ Featured Blogger. Largest and Oldest Mom Blogger Social Network. ~ Sex & Relationship Panelist. A popular website for heterosexual couples. ~ Sexpert. The website where sex educators & medical professionals talk about the female orgasm. ~ Sexpert. Based in Asia, the goal to expand sexuality knowledge and promote sex-positivity. ~ Co-founder. The site sought to empower women to discover and enjoy their own sexuality. ~ Sexpert. The site where 6 experts answered sex questions based on popular vote.


‘Cuddle: A Documentary’ by Fast Lane Productions. Self (2014)

‘[SSEX BBOX]’ (Ep. 2) by Kumba Films. Featured Sex Educator (2012)

‘The Night Minister’ (in production) by NuReality Productions. Featured Sex Educator (2011)

About The MamaSutra

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Lanae St.John


Most folks think they have to know everything about sex without needing to ask. Google can lead down a rabbit hole you never wanted to see. What can you do? Many people feel stressed when they want to talk to their partner about what they want, let alone try something new. As a result, they feel alone, disconnected, and uncomfortable. They have a vision for their relationship but nothing is changing, and they feel this is going to be the rest of their life: living just on the edge of discovery.

Well, I'm here to change all that.